Tips for those giving care
Caregiving can be exhausting and overwhelming. Here are some tips to help you take care of yourself while providing care to another.
- Find a caregiver support group.
- Maintain a sense of humor.
- Be assertive about getting the type of support you need.
- Develop self-efficacy: a person’s belief about his or her ability to organize and execute courses of action to manage given situations.
- Reach out for help in the family or community.
- Learn to prioritize your tasks so your load is manageable.
- Take care of your health. Make sure to eat healthy, get some exercise and enough sleep.
- Give yourself credit for what you do well regarding caregiving activities.
- Incorporate joy into your life. Do things you enjoy on a daily basis: listen to music, garden, go see a movie, or take a walk.
- Start a journal. Writing will help you express emotion and regain perspective. Learn to relax (it takes practice).
Source: caring.com, homecareassistance.com
Finding a caregiver
If you are struggling with everyday tasks, getting some help can be beneficial. Here are some general guidelines to consider before you arrange for a caregiver:
- Decide if you will rely on family members or hire a caregiver. If you hiring, consider whether they are licensed and have liability insurance.
- Find someone you are comfortable with. Do they communicate well? Are there language barriers? Do you enjoy their company?
- Form a tag team. If extensive care is needed, more than one caregiver may be needed. It can also be helpful to have a back-up in case of emergency.
- Set clear expectations. Make sure you have a list of duties and keep the relationship professional if you have hired someone.